When a man compliments you on your sexiness, accept it.

I’m going to share something quite amusing.

I was recently with a woman when I looked at her and said, “You know, you’re really sexy.”

“Well, today, I’m really not,” she replied. You see, I have a problem with my eye. My hair isn’t exactly the way it should be. For some strange reason, I feel a quarter-pound overweight this morning.”

This made me laugh, and it got me thinking about how many times in my life I’ve told a woman something, given her a compliment, told her she’s really hot, and she responds, “No, today I’m really not.”

When someone says you’re sexy, accept the compliment.

Go with the feelings it evokes.

Accept the vulnerability that will inevitably result. Because the moment you say something you’re not, you’re really telling the person, oh, hold on a second, I can’t take a compliment when I really should.

Accept the Compliment

Compliments are lovely, but when they come our way, human nature kicks in and we feel obligated to respond, rather than simply saying thank you.

We feel compelled to defend it, rationalize it, or claim that we are not this right now.

When someone approaches you and says, “You know, you’re absolutely stunningly beautiful, you. Instead of simply saying, “No, not me, little old me,” look the person in the eyes and say, “Thank you.”

Because a man complimenting you is his way of becoming vulnerable in your presence.

What Exactly Does He Mean?

Do you want to learn more about men? When a man looks at you and says you’re sexy, he’s feeling something for you right then and there. In that moment, he is feeling something about you. He’s expressing how he feels about you at the time. In that moment, he’s trying to get closer to you.

Most men find it difficult to give a compliment. In fact, most men find it difficult to give a compliment.

We actually send guys out to give genuine compliments to women they see on the street. The guys will go out and compliment the first woman they come across. Why? Because it’s such a difficult challenge for them, they just want to get it over with.

So, when a man sits across from you and says from the bottom of his heart, “God, you’re beautiful,” take it in. Because he’s attempting to get closer to you as a woman.

He’s attempting to show you a side of himself that you crave and desire: the vulnerable side, the real side.

You really want him to show off this side. But every time you shoot it down, he thinks to himself, well that’s all right, I’m not going to give another compliment again. In fact, I’m not going to go down that road at all; instead, I’m going to talk about the weather and other things.

Recognize the True Meaning of His Compliment

The true meaning of a man’s compliment is that he is attempting to get closer to you, to be more open and to open you up, so that the two of you can go somewhere different. He’s not looking for a compliment in return (hint that it kind of helps sometimes, though.) “Oh, you’re sexy as well.” You don’t have to say that unless you really mean it.

We’re always looking for people who care, and this is one way for a man to care. Men feel on a visual level first, then on an emotional level. So he’s trying to communicate with you, to get closer to you.

When a man sees a woman for the first time – let’s say you’re dating a man and you’ve known him for a certain period of time and you’re hanging out together, getting to know one another – he looks at you and says, “You’re so hot.”

“You’re so sexy, so beautiful, and you smell amazing.” This means he’s starting to like you and is telling you so in his own words. Because if he thinks you’re hot every time you walk in, that means you’re getting hotter to him. It means he’s thinking, maybe I can hang out with this girl, maybe I’ll like her, maybe I want to be with her, maybe there’s a future beyond this moment.

Because that is what a man does when he begins to open up. He’s starting with the physical side.

I’m not talking about random compliments from strangers on the street. I’m referring to a guy you’ve been dating a little bit, seeing a little bit, and you both kind of like each other.

He’s actually trying to be more open. He’s attempting to show you another side of himself, to delve deeper into a conversation, and to get to know you on a deeper level.

Anyway, this is just a brief note on what a compliment entails. I hope this helps.

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