How to Maintain a Positive Attitude While Dating Dating can be difficult.

Dating can be difficult.

Dating can be depressing and lonely. Dating can be an adventure that you don’t particularly enjoy. Here are two things you should be aware of right now.

  1. Any day, any time…
    First and foremost, love can strike at any time and in any place. That’s the best part about dating: you can meet the person you’re meant to be with at any time.

You could be out on the street.

You might find artificial sweeteners in Whole Foods.

You could be using Tinder or Bumble to swipe. But, if you’re out and about, you could run into the person you’re supposed to be with at any time and literally fall in love.

But in order for that to happen, you must first know and become something.

This brings us to number two.

  1. You must remain open.
    You must break the negative loop. You must overcome your sense of impending doom. You must let go of the notion that it will never happen for you.

You must believe because, if you are out there every day, learning, talking, and connecting, guess what?

You’ll find someone. You truly will. It’s all about playing the odds, and that’s really what dating is all about. You’re playing the odds, just like you would in any other venture, business, or activity. You’re just taking chances.

As a result, you must be willing to take risks. You must be willing to play the odds. And you must maintain your positive attitude. I’m at a loss for words. I’ve been down the road, and I was afraid I wouldn’t meet anyone new, exciting, or wonderful. Dating becomes more difficult as you get older.

People are more broken, confused, broken down, and — well, depressed. That’s all you have to do.

Keep believing, and you will meet someone wonderful. I know because I’ve been down that road before. And every time I was about to give up, I’d meet someone who was pretty awesome.

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