What if you’re on a date and decide to go out for a drink?
You make an effort to limit yourself to one, maybe two drinks.
So you only have two drinks and you… get loose.
That night, you’re feeling a little sexual.
So you just have one more drink.
I don’t drink at all, you see. And all of my dates in the last 5 to 10 years have been sober.
But, at the very least, I did it knowing exactly what I was getting myself into.
This is the Risk of Drunk Dating.
And that’s a pretty wasteful way to date.
It truly is. Because what happens is that your brain, mind, and groin begin to open up.
You start talking because you feel a little loose.
You decide to have another drink because you can’t stop yourself at this point, well, because once you start drinking…
What Happens Next?
You become loose, they become loose, and your hands begin to do the little touchy feely thing.
You feel their warmth next to your warmth, and before you know it, you’re drunk dating.
You’re even fucking drunk.
So you wake up the next day feeling a little guilty and judgmental.
You might call a friend and say, “I can’t believe it. We went to Mobile Bar and Grill, had a few drinks, and well, you know, I just couldn’t control myself.”
It happens frequently.
It occurs frequently when people date.
You can’t feel guilty the next day if you’re going to drink.
It’s not the alcohol’s fault.
Perhaps the alcohol lubricated and loosened you up more than usual, but the fact remains that you’re an adult.
You should already know and be aware if you can’t control yourself when it comes to alcohol.
I can’t stand it when people blame alcohol for their actions.
They made me do it with vodka.
You might call a friend and say, “I can’t believe it. We visited
You are, after all, an adult.
You’ve had a lot of vodka.
And this isn’t the first time you’ve gotten drunk and had sex on your first date, or had sex with someone you’re dating too soon.
You probably already know this, but people have short-term memories. Or they simply want someone to blame.
It’s easy to blame the alcohol, but the truth is that you chose to drink in the first place.
You chose to have sexual relations with someone.
I’m tired of people making excuses for their lives.
Alcohol does not “compel” you to do anything stupid. You are the stupid one who chose the alcohol in the first place.
So, keep your cool.
Don’t get drunk if you know you get loose when you’re drunk. Refuse to agree to a drinking date.
You’ve never heard of someone getting caffeinated and having sex.
You’ve never heard of somebody waking up the next day and go, “oh my God, you wouldn’t believe it, I had two cups of coffee and I went home and I had sex in circles four hours I was so jittery. Coffee compelled me to do it.”
That is something you never hear.
So, the next time you want to point the finger, point it at yourself.
