Are you dating because you don’t want to be alone or because you want to add someone to your already wonderful life?
I want you to reread that and ask yourself if your life is wonderful, amazing, and incredible.
“I truly believe that everything will be much better this year. I’m looking for a boyfriend or a girlfriend. I truly believe that having someone in my life will make my life more complete. I want to go on holiday, but I won’t go until I have someone in my life because I won’t have fun unless I’m with someone…”
Are you fed up with being single? Do you think about it on a daily basis? Here’s the deal: you’re already finished, and no one else will ever be. If you believe that having someone in your life will make it more complete, you are basically not practising the most important lesson I ever teach anyone when it comes to dating: self love.
If you don’t love and respect yourself, and if you don’t enjoy your own company, you’ll go out dating in a desperate manner. You’ll meet other needy people, and when two needy people meet, they form a relationship based solely on need.
based solely on two lonely people meeting. It degenerates into dysfunction. It becomes extremely dependent. And a co-dependent relationship is not in any way, shape, or form healthy. Codependency is one of the reasons why so many relationships fail.
If you want to meet someone special this year, you need to start embracing the beauty of your own life right now. You should make a list of all the wonderful aspects of your life. You need to start writing down all the things that are amazing about you as a person. More importantly, make a list of how amazing it will be when you finally feel all of that with someone else.
For so long, we’ve all been dating incorrectly. It’s not about requirements. It’s not about desiring. It’s about how you feel when you’re with someone and when you’re alone.
I’ve learned the ultimate attraction since I started really going out there and loving myself and doing the things I love. I discovered the law of attraction.
Because I was doing everything I enjoyed, I began to attract wonderful women into my life. I was leaving. I was eating at restaurants that I liked. I went to places where I could connect with people. My best friend was me.
Once you’ve mastered this, you’ll begin to attract the right people into your life. It’s almost magical, and it works. But you must believe it. You have to believe that people will come into your life. Whatever you do, you need to start having fun because that is what attracts everything else.
Have you ever walked out with your arms folded, angry and irritated? What do you think? Nobody wants to speak with you. Nobody wants to meet you when you act like that. You exude a very unattractive energy.
It’s time to change the way you think about dating. And it’s time to reconsider your approach to meeting new people. Learn the law of attraction and your life will be transformed.
