I went out to dinner with a friend the other night. We ended up at this fantastic restaurant where I frequently dine. Let me give you some background on this place where I go. The people who work there are among the most genuine I’ve met. The owner is all about complete authenticity all of the time.
For a variety of reasons, authenticity is essential in life. Anyway, we were talking about how he met his wife with the owner, and I asked him, “How did you know she was the one for you?”
“The moment I met her, I knew she was someone amazing and special,” he said. We had a fantastic evening together, and I didn’t want it to end. We walked and talked until about 2 a.m., when she asked me to return to her house. I spent the entire night with her, just cuddling.”
He was genuine, and he wasn’t just interested in getting her “in the sack.”
Why Are Cuddles So Important To Women?
Guys need to understand how powerful cuddles can be, and how simple it is to melt a woman when you’re man enough to hold her without expecting sex in return. Cuddling represents safety. Consider what cuddling means to a woman. When she was young, her father cuddled and protected her.
Cuddling a woman elicits an emotional response in her, making her feel safe with you. A woman must feel safe with you before she will give herself to you. So many guys are all over women are the end of a date, constantly trying to paw at her, and constantly trying to come onto her. In reality, all she wants most of the time is to be cuddled!
When you hug a woman, she senses your masculinity. When you hug a woman, she senses your vulnerability as well as your sighs against her. When you hug a woman, she senses your power. It elicits a sense of security. It stimulates oxytocin, which is exactly what you want.
You must understand the power of cuddles if you want to truly turn a woman on. Instead of trying to kiss her, grabbing for her breasts, or my favorite thing guys do, rubbing themselves against her, try cuddling her the next time you’re out on a date. Just cuddle her and wait to see what happens.
It’s almost like magic. Keep an eye on her as she opens up to you. Watch her begin to open up emotionally to you. Remove sex from the equation, gentlemen, and begin to become the strong, protective figure that women crave. Begin to concentrate on developing an emotional bond with the women you date. A woman will never feel you physically unless she feels you emotionally.
