Creating the mood when creating a date is important, no matter what stage you’re at in a relationship with somebody. You always want to be able to plan a memorable date.
First and foremost, it transports you back to when you were first romancing them. That is something that everyone requires. That is why date night is so important in marriages and relationships. So, how do you plan a memorable date?
You consider what your partner truly requires, desires, and desires. That’s the first step in planning a great date: determining what they require, want, and desire. What do they enjoy doing? What makes them unique?
Do they enjoy amusement parks because they remind them of their childhood? Do they enjoy long beach walks with a picnic blanket?
I know some of these are cliches, but they are what make people happy. You may not enjoy eating three courses and sitting in a restaurant for three hours, but your partner may. Simply doing so makes them feel special. You may not enjoy going antiquing or shopping on a Saturday, but they do. So there could be a date there. It’s a joy to do something for someone else.
We do it all the time with our children. We’re always in a good mood when we’re doing things for our kids.
So we should do the same for our colleagues. Make a list of all the things your partner enjoys doing. Things that made them feel unique.
That is the initial step. Keep that list, and save it to your iPhone. In case they hack into your phone one day, they’ll find some positive information.
Then simply set up dates that way. Whatever your idea of a date night is. Do everything you can for them. It’s going to keep the romance alive, but most importantly, it’s going to make them feel really special. It will make them feel extremely connected. And it will make them feel great.
That is what it is all about. It’s all about making things that make your partner happy. Because they’ll believe you care if you do. They’ll appreciate it if you go the extra mile, and they won’t sit there and criticize or rip you apart. And say things like: We never do this anymore, we never do that anymore.
Some of the arguments that arise in relationships will be avoided.
