You’re dating a fantastic new man. The only problem is that this amazing new man already has a woman at home.
The harsh reality is that this man will never be completely yours. If you have sex with a married man or a guy who has a girlfriend, he most likely has feelings for you during the sex. Yes, he has feelings for you in the heat of the moment, but he isn’t going to leave his wife, children, and home if he hasn’t already.
It makes no difference what he promises. I don’t care how many trips he takes you on or rings he purchases for you. It’s all bluster. So many women believe in the fairytale notion that he will abandon his family and ride off into the sunset with you.
He has a wife, children, and responsibilities. All that is happening is that he isn’t getting what he requires at home, so you are providing it for him. He spends time with you before returning home to play Daddy. He adores his children. His wife isn’t providing him with what he requires. He has the best of both worlds, and he’s well aware that he’s duping you.
Why hasn’t he divorced his wife yet?
It’s just a fact, and you have no control over it. It makes no difference how good the sex he gets from you. Consider it this way. If he was going to leave, he would have done so by now. If he truly loved you, he’d be plotting his escape to you right now.
You see, all of the words and emotions he describes to you are as much a fantasy to him as they are to you. He’s lost the romance and spark he had at the start of his marriage, and you’re restoring it. His wife washes his pants at home for him, and you get them dirty when he’s with you.
He’s got you right where he wants you. When HE feels like it, he sleeps in a bed. When a man is deeply in love with a woman, he can’t bear being apart from her. He wants to be with that woman all the time, and nothing will stop him from doing so. If he’s making excuses for why he’s not completely committed to you, they’re just that…excuses.
You are a sexual object. His mistress is you. When he’s bored, he comes to you for solace. To him, you’re nothing more than a toy.
I apologise if that comes across as harsh, but someone needs to make you ladies see what’s really going on in this situation. I feel for you, and I want you to find an amazing man of your own, not to take another woman’s or to be treated like a piece of meat by a man.
You are deserving of so much more!
